Mom's Elf Helper

Free Elf on the Shelf Letter & Recovery Note Generator

Personalize and print official North Pole letters in seconds: arrival, goodbye, accidental touch recovery, or the Santa note for older kids.

1

Pick your letter

2

Fill in the names

Prints on one standard sheet. Choose Save as PDF in the print dialog.

Arrival, Daily & Goodbye

Arrival, Farewell & Daily Notes

The three letters every family needs between November and Christmas Eve.

Arrival Letter

The first letter of the season. Says hello and lays out the one rule that matters.

Christmas Eve Farewell Letter

The goodbye. Thanks the kid for the month and closes the season gently.

Good Behavior Note

A short praise note for a specific win. Small enough to tuck under a pillow.

Gentle Reminder Note

The soft nudge for bedtime, teeth or listening, without sounding like a lecture.

Kindness Jar Note

Sets up a jar the whole family fills with one kind thing a day, read out on Christmas Eve.

North Pole Letter Service

Sets up the annual write-to-Santa moment with a deadline and a hand delivery.

Sealed Mission Note (Open At Breakfast)

A sealed envelope holding one small good deed. Reuse it every night of the month.

Christmas Eve Goodbye + Reindeer Food

The last night. Says goodbye and leaves reindeer food for the sleigh stop.

Free Hug Coupon

A coupon the kid can cash in any time, for the days the elf itself cannot be touched.

Touched or Forgot (SOS)

Magic Recovery & Forgot-To-Move Notes

For the morning something went wrong and the kid is already awake.

Magic Recovery Letter (Touched / Dropped / Chewed)

The kid touched the elf, or the dog got it. This is the official recovery procedure.

Forgot-To-Move Note (Sick / Stuck Day)

Print it, drop it under the elf, done in ten seconds. Explains why it has not moved.

Weather Delay Note

Alternative excuse for an unmoved elf. Blames the flight, not the parent.

Apology Note From The Elf

For when the elf's prank went too far and somebody's feelings got hurt.

Doubting Kids & Special Rules

Doubt, Transition & Permission To Touch

For kids who stopped believing, and for kids who need to hold the elf.

Santa's Letter For A Doubting Kid

A friend said the elf is fake. This answers the doubt without arguing with the kid.

Junior Elf Helper Promotion Letter

For an older kid who has figured it out. Promotes them to your secret partner instead of breaking the spell.

Santa's Permission To Touch

For kids who need to hold the elf: low vision, sensory needs, or autism.

Toy Donation Mission

Asks a kid to pick outgrown toys to give away. Lands better coming from the elf than a parent.

What to do when your kid touches the elf

It happens to almost every family in the first week: the elf gets picked up, knocked off the counter, or carried away by the dog, and your child is in tears over breaking the rule. Print a magic recovery letter when your kid touches the elf from the emergency tab above, pair it with a quick sprinkle of cinnamon before bedtime, and turn a meltdown into a rescue mission.

Elf on the shelf letter questions

Use the Magic Recovery Letter. It walks through the cinnamon, the carol and the apology in a fixed order, and it comes from Santa so the kid knows the situation is already handled. Print it and leave it where the elf was found.